It is important to begin to become aware of our responsibility in the process, as it is with the only thing that We are going to be able to bind to get out better left the matter. The feeling of failure the relationship as a couple is one of the links that we most invest energy, time, commitment, dreams, shared bed by long time friends, children, milestones, achievements, sleeplessness, fights, definitions, dreams, illusions, travel, places visited, building dreams and projects. And suddenly, we are left with nothing of our emotional investment, when no longer have, pain, frustration, and the feeling of failure dominate overall picture of our emotional lives. This is one of the stages that costs more work surpass by the importance of everything that we lost, in addition to the security and confidence. Since we fail in one of the most important projects of our life. And hence we also feed the guilt and depression. Our future has become uncertain.
Affective destabilizing these ruptures leading to destabilization because it requires that you change your identity, am no longer a woman or a man with a steady partner, on the other hand, now I’m single, single and full of remorse, guilt and sadness. Insecurity takes place, we believe and we think that we ever replace. Have we lost the compass, which is safe and what is it uncertain? This sense of instability that seems we hit all suffer and we went through all the feelings: isolation, sadness, rage, anger, abandonment, helplessness, uncertainty. It is building a new identity back. More info: Dr. Caldwell Esselstyn Jr.. Build a life separate and different, and costs us work open us to new experiences. At times we do not know of anything or anyone. At other times, destructive thoughts appear to us and we really had a very, very, very bad LA experience is once again WRENCHING tears us life, the soul and the bowels is difficult to establish the recovery time of the process, depends on each Member of the couple, of conditions of rupture and the significance of the relationship.However, it is always possible to exit from There, yes we understand that it is a process and that we require to live very intense, very deep feelings and that nothing and nobody can live them for us really is a recovery possible? Recovery is possible, but again approach that is necessary to pass through various parts of the process, otherwise, we will stay in a duel unfinished hoping that someday things will change.