The problem is in which sometimes very inadequate ways are learned to do it, to the point are some who finish by better not doing it. We can say that four great types of personalities for men and women exist that mark the way in which they handle the subject to coquetear and to attract which they like. We will say that the attitudes of we can divide them to the men in: 1 Timid and sensible. 2 Controlled and cold. 3 Little sensible extrovert and. 4 And surely sensible.
The main attitudes of the women are the following: 1 Timid and evasive. 2 Autocontrolled and distant. 3 Little sensible extrovert and. 4 Safe and sensible. First category: he, timid and sensible; she, timid and evasive. The men and women of the first category, tend to have a great timidity. Generally we can say that they feel shame in front of the person whom they like.
The men have the problem of which those emotions prevent them approached the woman whom it attracts to them. The women evade the situations and they do not allow that a man approaches to them by pain. The solution is in some key points. They must learn to handle the fear to the rejection and to the ridiculous situation that bring about the conquest situations. Tips are several practitioners who allow to solve these emotions. It is thing to follow the steps necessary and to practice a little. Sometimes it can be useful to work the self-esteem, but definitively for the subject to attract somebody, is necessary to know the techniques specific to use in particular in those cases. In addition they do not know what really it loves or it looks for the woman (in the case of the man) or the man (in the case of the woman), when they are in the situation in which they could coquetear to him.